Caregivers: Friends and Family of a Loved One at the End of Life

Agency Volunteer and Paid Caregivers

First-Time and Experienced Caregivers alike

Churches and Spiritual Support Communities

High School and College Family Living / Lifespan Psychology courses

Hospice information resources and training programs

Corporate Employee Relations depts for Aging Parent / Family Caregiver support

Hospital Clergy and Pastoral Care staff

ICU and ER Medical and Nursing staff for training and patient resource

Libraries

Medical and Nursing Education Programs for End of Life Awareness

Oncology, Thanatology, & Gerontology patient referral materials

Palliative Care physicians, agencies and staff

Psychologist & Grief Counseling Office patient resources

University / Community Ed courses in Death Education, Gerontology, Conscious Dying

University Volunteer Programs, helping introduce young people to Service Work

General Readership for Self-Help and personal growth awareness

      Jerral's University studies wove for nearly a decade in and out of many different disciplines, including Engineering, Computers, Poetry & Writing, Psychology, Counseling Business Law, several Foreign Languages and even Music and Ballet before finally setting its career arc into mostly Teaching, Engineering and Business.

      Jerral's first encounter with caregiving was as a part of an elective research project in a Counseling Psychology course at Oregon State University. Quite an intense experience at the time, it didn't fit neatly into any of his Engineering or Education career paths he could then discern, but inspired an interest in caregiving and death and dying research for many years to come. When he graduated with a Teaching Certificate he taught English, Writing, Drama, Computers and Foreign Languages for a few years before starting a High Tech firm in 1987.

      During the years of the AIDS crisis of the 1980's and 1990's, Jerral often took the time to help out at the bedside of young people dying of AIDS and several friends and family lost to cancer, ALS, Alzheimer's and other degenerative diseases.     Certainly these times offered many opportunities to Learn, Grow and Share in the understanding of what to do, what to say, how to be at the bedside of someone who lay dying. It was the lessons and joys of these times which formed the essence of URGENT WHISPERS: Care of the Dying.   His background in art, literature and prayer as well as conscious dying and end-of-life care provide a foundation for a masterfully inspiring and useful book of peace and support.

      Colleagues working with Jerral over the years have been fascinated by his passion in this work and the flow with peaceful joy and presence in the moment as he participates in the vigil process of a dying friend or loved one.   Hospice Volunteers used to ask "Where did you learn these things?" and "How did you know to do that?" and "How can I learn more about all of this?" to which perhaps now the best answer is URGENT WHISPERS: Care of the Dying, and its invitation to learning, growing, sharing in the moment during those Teaching Times of Trauma. As Sapienza says in the introduction to the book:

"I encourage you to look back in life and see what messages have come to you in some of the 'Teacher Times' disguised as trauma. Exploring this deep mine of rich resources available to us during our times of yearning, we are often pleasantly surprised by gifts there if we remain receptive."